Mistress Atrum Dea

I am a 34 year-old, very experienced, BBW Dominant Mistress based in the Medway Towns of Kent, England…

I have been into BDSM for all my adult life and have many happy ‘victims’ (see here)

Although Dominant I have a wicked sense of humour and am very approachable and bubbly but do not cross me – you WILL be punished.

I am happy to give newcomers and first-timers a lighter session if you are nervous!

For the brave I specialise in breath control (subject to medical questionaire). I love but am not limited to bondage, sensory deprivation, orgasm control and spanking.

I have a full-time gimp at home who likes to wait on me, serve me, lick my shoes, suck my rubber-covered fingers like a cock, take harsh beatings to his balls and pamper me by washing my hair and doing my nails.

I believe that we are born with certain sexual tendancies and, I remember feeling ‘nice’ about seeing people tied up in mainstream movies etc. as a child.  Of course there was nothing sexual about it when I was young but I knew it somehow made me feel good.

I am interested in the psychology of BDSM, Domination and power exchange.  I have found it an absolute wonder when I give my sub simple tasks such as counting to 10 but, as they are blindfolded, immobilised and under my control they find these simple tasks confusing and difficult.  I find the concept of  ’subspace’ very interesting indeed and, as an ex sub and occassional switch, I have been there myself many a time.

I am on many of the alternative social networking sites – if you are on one and would like to find me just message me and I will give you my profile title to search.  I am interested in the scene and the lifestyle and am happy to answer questions or help anybody with a genuine need.

I love bondage – particularly rope.  I get great pleasure out of wrapping lots of rope neatly round my subs and (with consent) photographing my work.  I am not a ‘proffessional’ rope worker nor am I proficient in Japanese styles but I like to put my own little ‘twist’ on things.

I love breath control and find the different methods fascinating.  Particularly having my sub stare at me through a clear plastic bag as his air runs out – seeing the pleading look in his eyes is a real dream.

I love to punish and find it particularly easy to find reasons to get to do this too.  I can ask questions and twist your answers to make you need punishment.  My favourite is CBT and , in particular, torturing sub’s balls.  I AM NOT AFRAID TO INFLICT GREAT PAIN IF YOUR HEART AND MIND DESIRE!!

I would like to help educate people in this wonderful lifestyle and also learn new things myself.

I am very bubbly, open and approachable out of scene so please do feel free to contact me (message only not phone) if you have any enquiries about absolutely anything ‘alternative’.

Please note, however.  Non-genuine time-wasters will be weeded out efficiently so – if you are after free sessions or getting me to tell you what I will do to you without booking a session – forget it.  Otherwise, welcome to my world, welcome home.

Mistress Atrum Dea